Even for those of us who scorn convention, New Year's is often a time of reflection. Aside from the turning over of the calendar, there is a tendency, after the bustle and glitter of the holidays, and as the world settles into its winter slumber, to pause and take stock of our actions over the past year, and to make plans for the next.
For many of us, however, the ritual can feel painful. Looking back, we see mainly, or only, failure and disappointment: goals that weren't reached, promises (our own or others’) that weren't kept, and relationships that deteriorated. And so, our hopes for the upcoming year are tinged with defeatism, if not despair.
It doesn't have to be that way – and won’t, if you set just one resolution for 2007...
From Hillary Rettig, the author of The Lifelong Activist: How to Change the World Without Losing Your Way (Lantern Books, 2006).
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